You Are Exactly Who You Need To Be
We all have a certain vision of who we want to be. There are times when we put the blame on others for our weaknesses and failures in life. For some reason, no one seems to be happy about who they are now and how their life has turned out to be. But if you come to think of it, you are exactly who you need to be. You just don’t realize it yet.
It is true that our development as a person is greatly affected by the people around us during our childhood. You turn out to be who you are based on how you are raised. Some of your traits you have inherited from your parents. There is nothing you can do to fight it nor change that fact. Every person’s childhood story is unique, just like we are all meant to be unique.
Although you may wish for things to have been better when you were younger, the past cannot be changed. You just have to accept yourself and all the other experiences that have made you that way.
There Are No Accidents
Always remember the line “there are no accidents” from the movie Kung Fu Panda. Things that happened in your life where meant to happen, to make you who you are. We all have our purpose and destiny in this life. And although some things may seem like mistakes or accidents, soon you will realize that they had to happen so that you can be where you need to be.
Experience Is The Best Teacher
Do not be sad about the bad experiences in your life. Pain is part of learning and growing. No pain no gain, right? Every experience you have been through has taught you a lesson. You just have to realize what it is. As they say, experience is the best teacher. Learn from every event that happens in your life. Whether it be good or bad, these experiences will make you stronger and wiser.
The other thing that makes us unhappy about ourselves is regretting every mistake we’ve made in our lives. Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone may fall down once in a while. But you should never give up. Learn to save yourself and make things right. Regret nothing because even your mistakes can help you find your true self.
You Have A Choice
We all have to stop pointing fingers or putting the blame on others for becoming who we are. No one can make you feel bad or do anything without your consent. Everything that happens in your life is your choice. You are who you need to be because you chose it. And if you do not like how things are or who you are becoming, just remember that you have a choice and you have the power to make a change in your life. You are who you need to be now. But you can be who you want to be if you choose to really work hard to change for the better.