7 Things Calm People Do Differently


We all have our own level of temperament. Some people lose it more easily than others. We cannot change how our minds react to challenging situations in our lives. But there is a thing or two we can all learn from calm people, We can do this by observing and adapting some things they do differently from those who are not so calm.

  1. They Pause To Think

Most people react right away out of impulse when situations get difficult. Calm people, on the other hand, pause to think things through before saying or doing anything. They weigh the possible consequences of the things they may or may not do, before they even happen. This saves them a whole lot of trouble because they do not say or do things they might regret later. Their responses are well thought of, just because they took the time to pause and think.

  1. They Are In Control

Calm people are not always as cool as you would think them to be. They also feel the anger, the fear and the anxiety that any normal person would. The only difference is that they are in control of their emotions. They recognize when they are about to lose it and take the necessary precautions to get things under control.

  1.  They Have An Outlet

Calm people may seem always in control, but there are times that the pressure and stress can overwhelm them too, as it does to any of us. The only difference is that they all have an outlet. They find ways to release the negativity.  For some, a good cry helps them feel better right away. Some listen to music, do hobbies, take walks or do whatever activity that will help release all the negative feelings inside.

  1. They Rest

A person’s mood is greatly affected by the body’s energy levels. If you are tired and sleepy, you are more likely to be cranky and stressed. Calm people are those who love taking siestas or short naps. Well rested people are more likely to be more calm than those who are tired and sleep deprived.

  1.  They Connect To People

Trying to get things done by yourself can be quite difficult. When things get unbearable and can’t seem to be handled alone, calm people do not hesitate to ask for help or seek advice from others. They understand the value of friendship and togetherness. Having someone to support you is very assuring.

  1. They Organize and Plan

One cause of anxiety and stress is when things that need to be done start to pile up over one another. Being around a messy environment can also be stressful as well. Not being able to find the things that you need when you need them is very irritating. Calm people organize their work place so they know where everything is. A clean and neat work place also relaxes the mind. Calm people also plan their tasks so everything gets done when they need to be done.

Categories Mindfulness

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